Mr Chintan D Patel: My Very-Soft-ware Engineer & Kartavya's Super Dad.

How can someone be so perfect?

Mr. Chintan Patel = Sanskaari beta, Mamma's boy, Perfect husband & Super dad.

I never imagined that someone all over from Satyug ( सत्य युग) would take birth for me, You are that kind of Man, Mr. Chintan.

Here is the most important tip for unmarried girls: Always marry a Mamma’s boy because :     

"The One who is raised by the Queen, knows very well how to take care of a Princess"

Both of us are poles apart.
He is threshold of patience & Me being the volcano of emotions.

He is the mirror image of what I expected in a husband,
He is like my dad & I want Kartavya even to be like him.
What else does a girl need!

Even when I took a decision of resuming career by starting my Clinic, when Kartavya was just 11 months; without a second thought he agreed.
So during evening hours, He is the one grooming Kartavya when mumma is building her future.

Believe me or not, now Kartavya is more fond of him rather than me, it makes me feel bit jealous.

Come-on, 

I have given you birth & carried you in my womb for 9 months
And You not only came out looking like him, Sharing the same blood group i.e O-ve, Using your left hand more than rightAnd the extreme was, when the first word spoken by you being PAPA, 

How can I not be insecure?

But looking at their innocent tease, laugh & surprising deeds daily, makes me fall for you more Mr Chintan.

• He was my partner in doing crazy things when Kartavya was in my womb, 
• He even used to read articles about parenting, 
• Wave good bye to baby when going to office, say hi on returning, 
• Used to chant shlokas at night & daily talk to our baby so as to check baby's reaction to his voice.
• From womb itself, Kartavya was very much reactive to Chintan’s voice, that’s the reason why after birth when Kartavya was placed in Chintan’s arm, his cry ceased.

                                 They truely form Father-Son Duo.

I was not able to see Chintan’s first reaction on seeing Kartavya, but I visualized the whole sequence, when my mummy told me that Chintan's eyes were in tears on holding Kartavya in his arms & to hide those happy tears he could do nothing better than hugging his mother.
Good that I was not there to witness that scene, orelse I would had surely cried.

I had witnessed his love for Kartavya on the day of Kartavya’s First vaccination.
Me being medico very well knew about the vaccination process so was prepared for it, 

but Mr. Software engineer was shocked when he saw the size of syringe;

While I was talking to pediatrician about the feeding habits of Kartavya, 

he was busy in measuring the length-breath-width of needle which was going to penetrate Kartavya’s thigh.

And the procedure begin, 

Me: Calm

Kartavya: shrill cry for a micro-sec & resumed his play.

Chintan: Clenched his fist tight, bite his knuckles & screamed loudly.

• How could the pediatrician penetrate that needle so deep? 
• Why was injection not given on butt?
• Next time don’t bring me along. These were the stanza of Mr Very Soft-ware engineer.

Till date i tease him for this incident, but i feel myself lucky to have you in my life Mr. Chintan Patel.

Thank you My Mr. Perfect & Kartavya’s Super Dad for Everything.